Sex Therapy

Desire is not a problem to solve.

It is a language to learn.

Sex Therapy in Oakland & CaliforniaPsychedelic Integration, Kink & Polyamory, Chronic Illness, Trauma-Informed Care

Your erotic life reflects your fluency in the language of desire. With yourself. With another. Sex is one of the places people carry the most shame and the least language. It is also one of the places where the body holds what the mind has been unable to process.

I offer sex therapy in Oakland and throughout California, via telehealth, for individuals navigating the following areas.

Psychedelics and Sex Integration

Integration support for individuals whose psychedelic experiences have shifted their relationship to desire, their body, sexual identity, or intimate relationships. We navigate the deeper terrain of dissolution, altered states, and what comes after.

Kink, Polyamory, and Consensual Non-Monogamy

Navigating BDSM, alternative relationship styles, and sex positive communities requires a therapist who understands the nuance. I've spent years inside these spaces, and I bring that lived familiarity into the room, not the perspective of an outside observer.

Intimacy After Trauma

Rebuilding trust in your body, your boundaries, and your capacity for pleasure after violation, loss, or somatic overwhelm.

Sexual Health and Chronic Illness

Navigating desire, function, identity, and relationships when your body has changed due to chronic illness or medical transitions. I bring both clinical training and lived experience to this intersection.

Erotic Self Understanding

Exploring your patterns of desire, the mythic and depth psychological dimensions of longing, and what helps you feel most connected to yourself and another person.

Grief, Loss, and the Erotic

Desire does not disappear in the wake of grief or illness. It transmutes. We work directly with the places where mourning and aliveness meet.

I am also the Creative and Artistic Director of Sex and Psychedelics Magazine, where I have been exploring the intersection of altered states and human sexuality since 2023.

My training in this work includes coursework through the Sexual Health Alliance.

This is depth psychotherapy that takes your erotic life seriously, as an essential part of your emotional, relational, and psychological wellbeing. Education often happens along the way, but the focus is therapeutic, not instructional.

Session Details

Format: 50-minute sessions via secure telehealth across California.

Location: Online, serving Oakland and the greater Bay Area.

Rate: Same as individual psychotherapy.